Grace Living –The God Law, In Christ! How to minister to ourselves and others…! Overview We can’t fix ourselves or anyone else. But if you love and accept them they will be in a better place for God to reveal the Truth that sets free. When people who are struggling first show up in our church or lives, they usually are not in a place where they can receive anything. So don’t just tell them they are loved, and accepted. Demonstrate it to them.
To be loved and accepted is the greatest of our God-given needs. For anyone who wants to have an impact on others’ lives, this is a nonnegotiable. If people do not feel accepted, you will never have an opportunity to share the truth that sets free. People who are struggling with addictive behavior, and other life-controlling issues have experienced great rejection and expect to be rejected. If they are not welcomed and feel ignored when they show up, they will perceive it as rejection and you probably will not see them again. They are saddled with low self-esteem and guilt and are living under condemnation. It will take a lot to get through that to where they can begin to receive truth.
Scriptural Truth – The Message Bible says it this way, “Welcome with open arms fellow believers who don’t see things the way you do. And don’t jump all over them every time they do or say something you don’t agree with—even when it seems that they are strong on opinions but weak in the faith department. Remember, they have their own history to deal with. Treat them gently” (Romans 14:1).
Apply The Truth, God tells us, there is no more condemnation. He doesn’t reject and condemn us, so let us make sure we don’t condemn others. Remember, don’t judge people and tell them what they’re doing wrong. Don’t tell them what to do. Our ministry is not to judge people, make them do right, or fix them. You will have people show up who may not know Christ. And even if they do, they may be so spiritually bound and emotionally traumatized that they are unable to receive any truth. They may be very resistant and even argumentative. How do you respond to a person like this?
Imparting Grace- “From now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer” (2 Corinthians 5:16). To love people, it can be done only with the love of God, which resides in you. You will not be able to forgive except through His life (Spirit) in you, and you can only truly love and accept others by faith.
Evaluation Although we do know the truth and have the answer in Jesus, some people will not be able to receive it, because they are not in a place of desperation and haven’t come to the end of self and their resources. They haven’t been disabused of the notion that they can do something to deal with their problem. They are looking for a program to tell them what to do, and when they find out you don’t have that program they will look elsewhere. That is fine, and there are countless programs that will tell them what to do. They actually need to try everything they can in order to find out that nothing works and only Christ can set them free.
Freedom F.O.C.U.S. [Faith Only Causes Us Success] Timing is God’s, and unless the Holy Spirit reveals Truth to them, many don’t know it. Many have the information or knowledge, but until God reveals Truth to them, it is just that—information. Our ministry is to be available to love and accept them and tell them the truth and point them to Jesus. If you understand this it takes the burden off you to accomplish anything. You can relax and watch what God is doing as you participate with Him in setting captives free.
HOW TO HELP AND MINISTER– There are hurting people all around you, even in your own family. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you know—God will use you if you do these five basic things. It is yet to be seen how much the love of Christ can do:
1. Accept them just the way they are. If you don’t do this, it doesn’t make any difference what else you do. It is truly said that people don’t care what you know until they know you care. This is everyone’s greatest need. In fact, when people realize how loved they are, they are very close to finding their freedom.
2. Have a ministry of grace, love, and forgiveness. Don’t try to make people do right. Tell them what God has done for them, how much He loves them, and what He will do for them. We need to know the truth—not what to do. We can’t do what’s right until we know who we are, in Christ.
3. Tell them who they are in Christ. Identity is always the issue. If you want to give someone real, positive, biblical hope, encourage them in the faith, and see their behavior changed, tell them who they are. We always act consistently with how we perceive ourselves.
4. Teach them their authority in Christ and how to resist Satan, and how to flee from sin. Let them know that Satan is a defeated foe. His only weapon against them is the lie, and they no longer have to let him set the agenda.
5. Tell them the truth that they are already free and have been given the victory. Freedom is not something to work for and one day perhaps achieve. It is for freedom, that Christ has set us free (Galatians 5:1) and we have been given the victory (1 Corinthians 15:57). A person who understands who they are and what they have in Christ can quit struggling and striving, and live in the freedom and victory Christ has provided for them.